If your marriage is a wreck and your spouse is wanting a divorce, or you have already received divorce papers you must be feelings pretty upset.
Fortunately, I have some tips and techniques that could actually save your marriage, these techniques are so easy to do, and really takes no prior knowledge of the marriage counseling field! Lay Everything Out - Well, your on the verge of divorce anyway right? Mind as well go ahead and lay out everything you have to say, and all the problems you think exist in your marriage.
Get a two pieces of paper equipped with pen or pencil and begin to write down what problems you think exist in the marriage, have your spouse do the same.
Once this is complete read them off to one another.
Once both these tasks are done figure out how you can solve these problems.
This is such an easy task, and can already save your marriage will this simple step! Expectations - Go ahead and tell your spouse what you expect out of the marriage, do this in a nice way, and have your spouse do the same thing.
Come to a compromise on things you cannot directly agree on.
This process can get heated so make sure you relax and take a break if needed! Remember to never leave the situation though saying something you know you will regret.
Be Spontaneous - Go ahead and take your spouse somewhere they haven't been in a while, take them some place nice and really have the most fun you can, this will give you some quality bonding time with your spouse.