The first thing you need to ask yourself is, "Why do I want to save my marriage?" Is it your kids? Is it the thought of a happier time with your partner? Whatever it is, it's necessary to have! Why you may ask? Because trust me, repairing a broken marriage gets difficult at times and you need to know exactly why you're trying to salvage it.
For instance, when some people exercise the motivation driving them is the idea that they will become thinner.
What's your motivation? What's your driving force? These are all questions you need to ask yourself.
When you've figured that out, you should apply these simple strategies to season your bland marriage: 1.
Confront your problems.
You can't expect to clean out your closet without taking a few things out, right? The same principle applies here.
You can NOT expect your problems to go away just be existing they don't exist.
If you don't confront them, it's likely they will never get dealt with.
2.
Ask your partner what they want.
Ask them how they would like your lives to change.
Be prepared to communicate.
And by communicate, I don't mean endless talking.
Communicating involves effective listening as well.
You must be prepared to listen their problems if you hope to accomplish anything.
3.
Passion and romance.
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Passion gets lost in the daily routine of our lives.
Take some time out of your day to truly appreciate your partner.
Plan that surprise date, go on that romantic cruise, buy them something special! Show your partner that you still care after all these years and trust me, the result won't be disappointing.
4.
Have sex! Yup, you read that right.
You can't expect to have that same intimacy with your partner if the sex has gone to the grave.
Make things in the bedroom exciting again!