Is it really impossible to enjoy a happy life within the vows of marriage? Well, of course and by all means you can.
Just remember to take FIVE on these tips for a happy marriage: (1) Always Share Sharing is caring and sharing does not necessarily mean to share only good things.
You share the bad things even more in order to gain a deeper understanding of who your spouse really is.
In Chinese philosophy, one can never fully understand the other person and not until given enough time.
By always sharing, you get to listen to your partner and thereby enhance communication, understanding and affection.
Keeping quiet to yourself, will not get you anywhere near the solution, instead you get nearer to depression and yet another bigger problem.
Open up yourself to your partner, and soon he/she will do the same to you.
This is crucial, because if he/she does not share enough with you, to whom would he/she? You get the idea..
(2) Always Help After you share, you help.
And you help better by knowing each other better.
For example, you had already known what he likes to do after work, a regular beer is all he needs.
So the same goes with how you win your customers against your competitors by grabbing that CHANCE, yes, you gotta take ACTION.
You can do something to make sure he gets the beer and you probably want to experiment with some works of creativity.
Try a dozen different cans for a change? and you will be surprised to learn what is going to happen next..
He would probably tell you, he only likes a certain brand (then you add this to your spousal knowledge base) or he would give you the hug of the century..
Either way, a good helping hand is what makes a relationship alive.
(3) Always Remember So you shared amongst yourselves, you tried to do something and what is next? By all means Remember.
Now you should remember that he only likes a certain brand, so seek to understand that he had always been particular on drinks, you would get to know him better would it not? So what about it? Simple, when something changes, you get to know instantly you ought to make time for learning what is underneath those changes.
For instance, what if he quit beer and switched to fruit juice, can you find reason on that? Not quite..
maybe tolls are getting on his health? Who knows, you got to remember things and open up discussions to share again.
Remember to place lots of care..
(4) Always Show Affection Keep the relationship in good shape by showing lots of affection.
Use words that are pleasant and polite.
Call by names and feel free to add personal identifiers such as 'boo', 'baby', 'honey' or maybe you know better how to use these.
Keep in mind these are the things that are going to make him/her feel special.
Maintain as well a good sense of humor in each day to drive away tension from work or living in general.
And that is what that brings people closer by feeling comfortable and at ease with the presence of each other which is what that makes it difficult to live without.
(5) Always Respect The last FIVE is about respect.
As easy as it sounds, to bring it on close practice can be a little more difficult.
You have to remember that respect is about taking a few steps back despite the cause of being wronged even.
You choose to let, to forgive, to speak kindly in return, to allow and to forget without holding onto grudges or feelings of hate.
If you would both respect each other and learn about his/her needs and overlook imperfections or mistakes, your relationship would soon flourish from lots of love to keep on that positive upbeat.
Just remember to take FIVE on these tips for a happy marriage: (1) Always Share Sharing is caring and sharing does not necessarily mean to share only good things.
You share the bad things even more in order to gain a deeper understanding of who your spouse really is.
In Chinese philosophy, one can never fully understand the other person and not until given enough time.
By always sharing, you get to listen to your partner and thereby enhance communication, understanding and affection.
Keeping quiet to yourself, will not get you anywhere near the solution, instead you get nearer to depression and yet another bigger problem.
Open up yourself to your partner, and soon he/she will do the same to you.
This is crucial, because if he/she does not share enough with you, to whom would he/she? You get the idea..
(2) Always Help After you share, you help.
And you help better by knowing each other better.
For example, you had already known what he likes to do after work, a regular beer is all he needs.
So the same goes with how you win your customers against your competitors by grabbing that CHANCE, yes, you gotta take ACTION.
You can do something to make sure he gets the beer and you probably want to experiment with some works of creativity.
Try a dozen different cans for a change? and you will be surprised to learn what is going to happen next..
He would probably tell you, he only likes a certain brand (then you add this to your spousal knowledge base) or he would give you the hug of the century..
Either way, a good helping hand is what makes a relationship alive.
(3) Always Remember So you shared amongst yourselves, you tried to do something and what is next? By all means Remember.
Now you should remember that he only likes a certain brand, so seek to understand that he had always been particular on drinks, you would get to know him better would it not? So what about it? Simple, when something changes, you get to know instantly you ought to make time for learning what is underneath those changes.
For instance, what if he quit beer and switched to fruit juice, can you find reason on that? Not quite..
maybe tolls are getting on his health? Who knows, you got to remember things and open up discussions to share again.
Remember to place lots of care..
(4) Always Show Affection Keep the relationship in good shape by showing lots of affection.
Use words that are pleasant and polite.
Call by names and feel free to add personal identifiers such as 'boo', 'baby', 'honey' or maybe you know better how to use these.
Keep in mind these are the things that are going to make him/her feel special.
Maintain as well a good sense of humor in each day to drive away tension from work or living in general.
And that is what that brings people closer by feeling comfortable and at ease with the presence of each other which is what that makes it difficult to live without.
(5) Always Respect The last FIVE is about respect.
As easy as it sounds, to bring it on close practice can be a little more difficult.
You have to remember that respect is about taking a few steps back despite the cause of being wronged even.
You choose to let, to forgive, to speak kindly in return, to allow and to forget without holding onto grudges or feelings of hate.
If you would both respect each other and learn about his/her needs and overlook imperfections or mistakes, your relationship would soon flourish from lots of love to keep on that positive upbeat.
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