In these tough economic times, sometimes a separate household or even nursing home care are not affordable when considering the care of an elderly loved one.
This may in some cases require that the elderly relative move in with you and your family.
There are a number of things you should consider when moving an aged parent or relative into your home.
Plan ahead.
Not all aging parents eventually move in with an adult child, but it is always a possibility.
Talk to your spouse and to your parent about the possibility of them moving in before it becomes reality.
Don't wait until the parent's health has deteriorated to a point where you have to rush your plans.
Talk to other family members, especially your children.
This will impact their lives as well.
Make sure the child understands what is happening and ask for their input.
Prepare all family members with the changes that are about to occur in the household.
Be sure your home is safe for an elderly person.
Consider having handrails installed in the bathroom and in other areas which could be considered hazardous for an elderly person trying to maneuver around.
Install higher wattage light bulbs to increase visibility in hallways and other dark areas.
Secure throw rugs, floor mats or any other items that may cause slippage.
Convert a first floor bedroom if possible so that the senior citizen will not be required to navigate stairs on a regular basis.
By planning ahead and engaging all family members, you can make the transition easier and enjoy a comfortable, happy life together.