Dating opportunities comes when (if you are a lady) you begin to meet a lot of men.
Of course if you are out to get married, then your dating should not just be a distraction or a diversion from your busy schedules and have fun.
Rather it should be an occasion for you to evaluate your spouse and create a relationship.
You should learn to create conversation with your date.
Going to movie, sports etc will only make it much impossible for you to know your date (though it could be a lot of fun).
As a woman, you should create time for a man to talk about himself (men like to talk about themselves on the first date to make the lady belief they are who they say they are or who the lady think them to be).
Let him invest his emotions and a little of his money on you on the first date.
You should also take out time to plan your dates for a more successful date.
The activities need not be exotic after all it's your first date.
You can just choose to do some simple things in special ways.
Ensure you also dress properly for the occasion, don't let the power of clothing pass you by, for it can be a major asset in attracting an opposite sex.
The use of the right clothing has nothing to do with fashion or size.
However, do not scare away your spouse with your dressing.
Cleanliness they say is next to godliness, ensure you are dress neatly, a decent shower and a nice smelling fragrance can do the job for you.
Also, you should wear clothes that follows your body form.
An outfit that makes you look busy will definitely scare away your date.