There are significant differences between the way women and men show feelings.
This is why sometimes women get it wrong.
So, what are the best ways to determine his real, secret feelings for you? Is he interested in what you're interested in? If he shows genuine interest in your thoughts, your passions and your goals, this is a very good sign.
This is something which is hard to fake in the long run.
Is he an open book with you? He tells you everything and anything about himself, his life, and his friends.
Moreover, he does not hide anything at all from you.
He is a truly open book.
Does he do things for you? If his feelings are real and deep for you, your happiness matters.
So, he'll do thing in order to put a smile on your face, even little things, such as walk the extra mile to buy your favourite cup of coffee that only a special café sells! Or, he'll remember that you've been looking for a particular book and, all of a sudden, he'll find it for you.
He has time for you He's never too busy to be with you.
Even if he's genuinely busy, he'll make sure you know that he's thinking of you.
He'll call you or text you or email you something kind, nice, loving so that you know you are in his thoughts.
He will the make it up to you by making special efforts next time you two meet.
Does he support your life goals? He will not try to change your life goals, he will in fact be interested and do his bit to support them.
It does not have to be financial, but it can just be in thoughts or giving you time and space for your life dreams.
He truly misses you He won't just say the words.
He will act like someone who truly misses you.
He will want to hear your voice as much as possible if he's apart from you.
When you two re-unite, you will feel that he's truly missed you.
You will not have to ask him!