Are you tired of trying everything to get a guy to fall in love with you? Does it seem like nothing works and you're just about ready to give up on the whole notion of a loving relationship? Do you fear you might be destined to live your life alone? While you can't expect to just spot a guy and snap your fingers to make him love you, you can learn a few tips that will make you more appealing to the opposite sex and can have you well on your way to a great relationship.
The first thing you need to learn is how sex plays a role in a loving relationship.
Many women think it's the starting point; meet a nice guy, go to bed with him, then work out the kinks later.
No.
Meet a guy, get to know him significantly, analyze and be conscious of the kinks as they arise then go to bed with him if those kinks can be ironed out.
You might think that a man simply won't be interested in you if you don't put out.
But what kind of men are you attracting with that mentality.
You've probably already noticed that you're simply appealing to the guy who wants a sexual relationship, not a loving one.
The guy who's in it for the love with actually want to get to know you.
Not only that, but he wants the challenge of winning you over, of eventually seducing you and bringing you to his bed.
When he succeeds, he wants to feel that he did something worthy to deserve having you when no other man could.
If you're just handing it out, left and right, you're just too easy.
He won't be able to see you as someone who could be special in his life.
To stand out, try to become his friend.
Be the person he can talk to, the one he wants to be with when he wants to enjoy himself, relax and just feel good.
This might seem like some outdated advice, but a loving relationship doesn't just grow out of a few silly dates or romantic gestures.
It is a true and intense bond that can grow out of being together and enjoying yourselves.
Find out who he really is and let him explore all the many facets of your personality.
When he sees how great it is being with you all the time, he'll fall in love with you.
The first thing you need to learn is how sex plays a role in a loving relationship.
Many women think it's the starting point; meet a nice guy, go to bed with him, then work out the kinks later.
No.
Meet a guy, get to know him significantly, analyze and be conscious of the kinks as they arise then go to bed with him if those kinks can be ironed out.
You might think that a man simply won't be interested in you if you don't put out.
But what kind of men are you attracting with that mentality.
You've probably already noticed that you're simply appealing to the guy who wants a sexual relationship, not a loving one.
The guy who's in it for the love with actually want to get to know you.
Not only that, but he wants the challenge of winning you over, of eventually seducing you and bringing you to his bed.
When he succeeds, he wants to feel that he did something worthy to deserve having you when no other man could.
If you're just handing it out, left and right, you're just too easy.
He won't be able to see you as someone who could be special in his life.
To stand out, try to become his friend.
Be the person he can talk to, the one he wants to be with when he wants to enjoy himself, relax and just feel good.
This might seem like some outdated advice, but a loving relationship doesn't just grow out of a few silly dates or romantic gestures.
It is a true and intense bond that can grow out of being together and enjoying yourselves.
Find out who he really is and let him explore all the many facets of your personality.
When he sees how great it is being with you all the time, he'll fall in love with you.
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